Love Problems? Why am I still Single?

Why Do We Fall In Love? 

You were walking down the street or sitting in the class or riding a bike, nothing was unusual and then suddenly she came out from a nearby shop or from the door and it happened that you fell in love with her at the first sight! Huhh!! What happened?!!

The answer is simple, its all related to how your mind works. If you are single or currently not in a relationship then your mind will always be on a hunt for your long awaited partner. Even if you think that you don't care about relationships now still you will fall in love with the first person who matches your criteria.

But why she? Why not someone else?

Each one of us has got some kind of a check list stored into his mind which includes the criteria that a person must meet in order for you to love him. If a person didn't match some of the items in this list then he becomes disqualified to be a potential partner and you will think of him as a friend. The items in your check list are of course unique and specific to you depending on your background, values, past experiences and beliefs.

According to me (every body have different conditions), the conditions are:

• Item one: She must have the same educational background as mine
• Item two: Her hair must be black (I always failed to establish successful relationships with brunett(girl with black hair) in  past and so my subconscious mind included this item in my list.
• Item Three: She must be assertive.( the ability to express your emotions and needs without violating the rights of others and without being aggressive).

People are usually unaware of their subconscious criteria and that's why they usually describe love as a mysterious thing that follows no rules but the truth is that when they become aware of their subconscious criteria they will be able to know why they fall in love with certain people and not others.

Once you become aware of your own list you will know how to stop loving someone and how to make someone fall in love with you.

Why am i still single, what's the reason?

One of the common problems that many people are really concerned about is being single!!

People are concerned about being single to the extent that they regard it as a personality disorder! In order to help those people feel more confident about themselves i decided to write this post to show them that they can be single and elite in the same time.

The second reason i wrote this post is to help single people answer those who always ask them the question "Why are you still single dear?".

10 reasons why elite people might be single

1. You are single because you know what you want: You might be still single because you are looking for the best and you don’t want to settle for average or even above average choices. Many people settle for incorrect choices just to get into a relationship which is something that ruins the relationship later on.

2. You are still single because you are confident: Some people are still single because their expectations of themselves is so high and so they believe they deserve someone who is at least, as elite as them, and those people are rare (according to their own point of view)

3.You might have fans even though you are still single: You might have caught the attention of many but few or almost no one caught your attention and that's the reason why you are still single.

4. You believe you are too good for early relationship: The reason you might still be single at 16 or even 18 is that you believe that you are too Good for early relationship.

5. You are still single because Your Criteria is tight: You might be still single because your criteria is so tight and you might be looking for non existent potential partners. At the beginning at “why do we fall in love” i said that people only fall in love with those who match a list in their minds called the subconscious list..

6. You are still single because you are not desperate: The reason You might be single because is that you never chase anybody even if you like him and this might make the other person believe that you don’t want him. This means if someone played hard to get with you then you won't bother trying harder.

7. You are still single because of over confidence: The reason you might be still single in that Whenever you meet someone who is really good, you think that you can do better than her or I’m too good for her.

8. You are still single because its hard to impress you: Another reason you might be still single is that you have seen so much that it became really hard to impress you. People who are impressed by anything are love addictions who have a low self esteem and who want to start any relationship just to feel good about themselves.

9. You are single because you want a real challenge: The reason you might be still single is that you don't want those who fall for you easily but you want a real challenge that satisfies your ego because you are really confident.

10. You are still single because you are really strong: You might be still single because you don’t care at all about people's opinion and about those who wonder why are you still single as you know that you are elite with disregard to the opinion of others if they believe other wise.

Why do some people never recover from breakups?

That's why people who think that the "the one" or the "soul mate" concept is true never recover from breakups. Those people think that there is only one match for their criteria in this world and because they aren't aware of the fact that there are hundreds of people out there who could meet their criteria they never recover from breakups.

You can fall in love with any person as long as he/she matches your subconscious criteria and that's why you should never feel bad after a breakup, simply because sooner or later you will find another person who matches your criteria and he may even be better than the first one.

NOW WHAT TO DO???

Ans:  Just Be Yourself and look for someone who likes the real ‘YOU’ J

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